Behind the bulk of mental health problems are “really bad, serious things that are disturbing children over a long period of time,” says Dr. Colin Ross, an internationally renowned clinician, researcher, author and lecturer in the field of dissociation and trauma-related disorders.
At his seminar on Trauma Model Therapy in Auckland in 2005, Dr. Ross revealed that during his medical training in the seventies, he was told that incest only happened in one in a million families. In four years of medical school and four years of psychiatry training, he basically had no instructions, lectures, or case studies on child sexual abuse or its consequences.
In 1998, however, psychohistorian, Lloyd DeMause, stated after much research into the history of childhood:
I have found that rather than the incest taboo being universal – as anthropologists claim – it is incest itself that has been universal for most children in most cultures in most times. A childhood more or less free from adult sexual use is in fact a very late historical achievement, limited to a few fortunate children in a few modern nations.
Perhaps it is no wonder that we remain largely in ignorance of its dire impact on huge numbers of lives. I now know that incest and sexual abuse can have a lifelong negative impact on a person’s life, robbing them not only of a chance to find happiness, but subjecting them to a seemingly endless struggle to achieve their potential in life because of the numerous physical and mental health problems they are likely to face as a consequence. What is little known is that childhood sexual abuse can spiritually bankrupt one’s life, creating the sort of desolation and scattered pieces one would find on a battlefield.
Dr. Ross made it clear that just as rape, combat, sexual and physical abuse are high risk factors for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), developing a borderline personality disorder is also a “natural response to trauma.” Sexually abusing a child is especially traumatic, for not only are their boundaries violated and their innocence and trust betrayed, they are reduced to an object for an adult’s sexual gratification. And objectification dehumanises them.
Some mental health care workers have joked that the best thing to do with the intensely difficult and hard-to-handle ‘borderlines’ is to refer them. It is now known that sexual abuse trauma is often the foundation upon which a borderline personality disorder develops. At the end of the seminar Dr. Ross reminded us that “there but for the grace of God go I.”
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March 12, 2011
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